Valentine's Day reminds me of love, family and marriage. It also makes me wonder about the safety of marriages among Christian couples. So the question is, how safe is your marriage? The biggest threat to any marriage is not infidelity or miscommunication. The greatest enemy to marriages is ordinary. Ordinary marriages lose hope. Ordinary marriages give into compromise. Ordinary is the belief that this is as good as it will ever get. When we begin to settle for ordinary, it is easy to move from "I do" to "I'm done". Please, as you think of Valentine's Day this year, don't settle in your marriage for ordinary.